People With Wandering Eyes That Got Caught By Their Significant OtherBy Karen D
Being cheated on sucks, it’s true. But after all the sadness and anger are gone, you most likely start feeling the need to warn everyone so that no one has to go through the same situation as you. Maybe if you expose the behavior or their actions, other people in relationships will start to pay attention to the way their significant others act and find their own peace of mind. That’s why it’s so cool that these people were so brave to expose their cheating exes and posted the screenshots online for everyone to see. Besides, sometimes, these cheaters are just so oblivious and unapologetic about their actions that when they admit it, it seems like a joke. Check out some of the most cringe texts that’ll make you want to say: thank you, next!
This person thought the best way to break the news to their boyfriend would be to start with more impactful bad news to make them feel less bad about the actual news they had to tell. And it technically worked.
To be honest, this seems like the best outcome for this crazy exchange. They admitted to cheating and got that guilt off their chest, while their boyfriend got his peace of mind of knowing his video game is okay, we guess some things are more important than others…
We have all accidentally texted the wrong message to the wrong person, and it’s always a little awkward when it happens. But hopefully, it’s never as awkward as this person who announced to her boyfriend that she is planning on going out with another guy.
The fact that she even explained she meant to text someone else just makes everything so much worse… She could have pretended she meant “hanging out” not “going out on a date”, but instead she simply admitted to cheating on her boyfriend.
Jefferey seems to be going out with so many girls that it has become too hard to keep track of all of them. Maybe he is not in an exclusive relationship with any of them, but it’s still very uncomfortable to get this type of wrong text.
Even if you have agreed on seeing other people, it still stings to know the other person is having fun with someone else. Especially while you are not able to do the same since you are spending the weekend away with your parents…
These two girls found out that they had been dating the same guy for two whole years, and instead of being upset with each other, they decided to unite forces and use this double strength to take this cheater down.
“Pain Olympics”, if you are not familiar, is a series of gruesome viral videos from back in the day that showed men putting themselves through extreme torture. This girl definitely knows how to get a guy to regret cheating on her.
One more cheater who got caught because of his carelessness. We love to see this type of guy being caught in his lies. This behavior deserves to be punished not only with a breakup but with her taking the Xbox too.
We support this girl and her fierceness. This is the type of empowerment we need to aim to achieve in our lives. But it really is so sad that some men don’t respect their girlfriends unless they threaten to take something from them. We hope she never gives him his console back.
The Funny Ex
I wonder how long it must have taken for this person to come up with this well-thought and beautifully written poem. They must have been really proud of it to even consider sending this to their cheating ex instead of just forgetting about them.
This person is probably really funny and easy-going, after all, it takes a big person to contact someone who hurt you so badly. And, to be honest, it’s a good thing they did. This is a really good rhyme. It lacks a bit in originality but, not bad!
Jordyn Or Jordan
To be fair these two names only have a single letter difference, so this is an honest mistake. What isn’t an honest mistake, though, is cheating on your girlfriend, not feeling ashamed, and even bragging about it to your “bros”.
Can you imagine getting a text from your boyfriend announcing that he had just hooked up with someone else? We hope Jordyn found someone way better after this incident, who loves her and respects her all of the time.
Such an awkward conversation… It even hurts to read it. We can only imagine how confused Tony must have been when he got the message about his brother. Not only was it completely uncalled for, but also he had to find out through text message that his significant other and brother cheated.
It’s bad enough that he was cheated on, it’s way worse to know it was his own brother… At least he found out before committing too seriously… We hope Tony had a long conversation with his brother about boundaries.
Have you ever cared so little about the person you are going out with that you broke up with them through text messages? That behavior alone shows how little respect this man has for other people (including his unaware wife)…
We’re really hoping this one is a joke though. After all, how can she reply “oh ok” to a breakup text by her husband that was meant for someone else? This whole thing just does not make any sense… But then her conscious kicked in: we hope she kicked this man to the curb!
Disgusting Father Of The Year Award
Not only is this man completely disrespectful for cheating on his wife and mother of his children, but he also talks about them in the most disgusting, upsetting way. It’s bad enough that he is lying to all of them, but calling them names is a whole new level.
Karina seems to be a pretty reasonable person. Obviously, she is going to tell her mom, since she doesn’t deserve to be treated this way and lied to. And maybe if she gets the money, puppy or car, she can take share them with her mom.
Here’s another example of how guilt makes people do one thing when they were actually planning on doing something completely different. She was so scared of telling Mark about the whole situation, that she ended up texting him instead of Peter.
Hopefully, she cheated with a different Peter that isn’t Mark’s brother. I mean, it’s bad enough that she cheated and got pregnant, but if she actually did all that with her husband’s brother that’s just so much worse!
This person had the opportunity to come clean many times – in therapy and over text. But instead of admitting to being a cheater, they decided to act like their significant other was being paranoid. Such a disgusting manipulative thing to do…
If you are unhappy in your relationship, all you have to do is have a conversation and break up with your partner. There is no reason why you should treat them with so little respect as if they didn’t deserve it.
So many cheaters out there! If you are actually going to disrespect your partner this much, at least make sure you are texting the right person before hitting “send”, so you don’t embarrass yourself and possibly someone else – like your children.
This child was a little bit more sensible in the blackmailing compared to the previous one: instead of a car, they just asked for a new laptop and a phone. Maybe this one will actually get the things they are asking for.
Do these people actually change the names of their exes on their contact list to “ex”? That is the only explanation for this type of mistake. Either that or they date many people with the same name and then forget which one is which.
We’re wondering if after this awkward conversation they still tried to text the other ex to see if she would take them back. Or maybe this one uncomfortable situation was enough for them to realize it was time to move on and find someone new.
Two Cannot Play This Game
Yikes. Before getting too stressed over a text, make sure you read it correctly. This girl got so nervous after seeing the word “cheated” that she admitted to being unfaithful when in reality she had not been cheated on.
After her boyfriend explained he meant he cheated off of her on the math test, she realized she should have read the first text one more time before getting this worked up. Now she is single, but at least she learned a lesson.
Check who you’re texting, people! This is the first rule of cheating! And we are not suggesting you cheat, but if you do, at least do it properly. The only thing worse than a cheater is a sloppy cheater. Cover your tracks, make sure not to leave any loose and try your best. Or, you can just not cheat.
Also, can we take a moment to appreciate how chill this girl is? Her boyfriend said he can’t see her tonight and she responds with love, then he tries to text another girl but sends it to her and she simply asks who this person is. Mature.
First of all, who dates their best friend’s ex? How is this something that could possibly work in the long run? The whole concept of dating someone and then going out with their closest friend is just so weird… There are so many people out there…
After reading this conversation, it’s easy to understand the type of person who would date their ex’s best friend. The type of guy who is not looking for commitment and that thinks he can have anything or anyone he wants at any moment.
This person’s boyfriend was nice enough to let them choose if they wanted broken bones or a broken Xbox… What a gentleman! All jokes aside, cheating is bad, but this is not the way to get revenge. This message is pretty terrifying.
It is pretty scary that the boyfriend was so calm about the whole thing, as if the cheating was just an excuse for him to be violent. We don’t support cheating, but maybe breaking up with this guy was not such a bad thing after all…
Keeping It In The Family
We’re not sure why, but so many people get cheated on by their significant others and their siblings. Is this some sort of revenge for something that happened during their childhood or teenage years? Is it just a coincidence? We’ll never know.
One thing we do know is: if you are interested in someone who isn’t your spouse, tell them you want a divorce. There’s no reason to embarrass and disrespect someone like this in their own home. We would all try to be decent people.
The Other Girlfriend
This must have been pretty awkward for both of these girls… Andy is clearly a player who does not deserve a single girlfriend, let alone two different girls fighting for him. It’s a good thing Jessica did not even waste her time.
We’re hoping that Andy’s other girlfriend – the one who answered the text – also broke up with him immediately. But not before looking for other potential girlfriends he might also have and warning them about what was happening. They all deserve a lot better.
Zoe has a serious problem right now. She is dating two guys, but instead of enjoying her life twice as much, she is twice as stressed because she has to keep her double-life hidden from both of them. Best to stick to one to avoid all this unwanted drama, ey?
Maybe if she just chose one of them and decided to come clean to the other one, she would be able to relax and enjoy a semi-healthy relationship instead of constantly looking over her shoulder to make sure her lies are being kept secret.
It’s so uncomfortable to see these people trying to pretend like they are so helpless when they are actually just trying to manipulate others. As they say, honesty is the best policy. If you don’t want to be with someone, just say so.
The second-hand embarrassment with this one is huge. Can you imagine seeing your significant other hanging out with other people after they just told you they are home because of a cold? This boyfriend probably felt very stupid for trusting her.
This person at least had the courage to admit that they cheated, which is already a lot better than the other cheaters we’ve seen so far. They know they did something wrong and did not want to keep lying to their partner.
But that being said, they still cheated. And worse: Darrel was also committed to someone else, so they both cheated on their respective significant others! That’s just such a terrible thing to do. We hope Darrel also came clean to his partner.
Before comforting someone because of bad news, make sure they have already heard the bad news and are ready to be comforted. This would have been a nice text message to get after a breakup, but it was just terrible since they were still dating.
Maybe it’s just a really harsh joke, maybe it’s an honest mistake, or maybe Derek just didn’t know how to break up with his girlfriend and thought this would be a good way to do it. Spoiler alert: it wasn’t a good way to do it.
Before saying something you might regret, make sure you know what you are doing. Obviously, it’s a good thing that this person came clean and admitted to cheating, so that their partner could then break up with them, but still.
Also, who still gets pranked on April Fools? How are people not paying attention to the one day of the year when everyone pranks everyone for 24 hours straight? We definitely blame this person for being so distracted.
Ok, but who send these text messages telling their significant other that they are cheating? Why do these people think that telling them through the phone is better than doing it in person? Is it because they are ashamed? Or because they simply don’t care?
Either way, the very least a cheater should do is admit and apologize in person to their partner. There is probably nothing worse than getting an emotionless string of words saying your trust has been broken by someone you loved.
To be fair, this was a very confusing message. This girl texted Danny hoping that he would say he had never cheated, or that he cheated on the school test. But we understand why Danny would think she meant cheating on her with another girl.
Either way, it’s very naive of him to think that admitting would be enough for her to forgive him and move on like nothing had happened. At least she found out soon and broke up before it was too late.
James and Jared
Well, sometimes people get lucky and find out the bad news early. We don’t know how long these two were together before Jared entered the picture, but at least James has zero doubt about what has been going down behind his back.
We don’t wish this on anyone, but it’s better than being strung along. We don’t know where Jared falls in all this either, but we have to take a guess and say that Jhe and the girl deserve each other. Who knows, maybe they are soul mates?
Autocorrect gets us in the most awkward situations, and it’s very hard to convince people that it was actually our phones that wrote something, not us. We all have an embarrassing story because of autocorrecting, but it still won’t turn it off because it makes our lives easier most of the time.
Even here, autocorrect saved this girl from being in a relationship with someone who had been cheating on her. It might have been a failure and it could have potentially damaged a relationship if it wasn’t for the fact that her boyfriend is an actual cheater.
Parenting Done Wrong
It is so hard to grow up and realize that our parents are not these brilliant creatures who know everything about the world that we thought they were when we were kids. But it’s even worse to know that one of them is being a bad person.
We truly hope that after getting the five hundred dollars, a new laptop, and some new video games, they still told their mom. After all, she deserves to know what is going on in her own house and decide what to do about it.
Can you imagine being married to someone who messages random women on Facebook asking them to go out with him? It’s so embarrassing that people can find out about him cheating before you do… And in the meantime you are completely unaware.
It is so not ok to approach women like this in the first place. But it’s just a thousand times worse when you have a wife and say you don’t care if the women you are hitting on is also married. With all these marred people cheating, marriage seems like such a traumatizing event. Sheesh, cheaters really suck!
Bad News Or Good News?
Hey Julie, turn that frown upside down! Who would have known that such bad news could be turned into good news so quickly? We’re sure that deep down Spencer’s girlfriend (or ex-girlfriend) was actually kind of happy with the news.
It’s not that we’re rooting for bad things to happen to people, but he brought this karma upon himself. If he didn’t want to date this girl, he could have just broken up with her before going out with someone else.
There is no excuse for cheating on your partner. When you commit to a relationship, you commit to being faithful and loyal to the person you are with, regardless of how many hours the other person spends away from home every day.
It’s just so childish and offensive that this person thought they could get back together with the person they cheated on by explaining that the reason why they cheated is because they were lonely. Where is the commitment?
21st Century Feminism
Girls need to stick together. There are so many men out there who think they can do anything and get anyone they want just because. So it’s important that women show them that that is not the case at all.
This woman in the screenshot was very direct and polite, she simply stated that if this man is still married, he should not be hitting on other women. How crazy is it that someone needs to explain the simple rules of commitment to someone who’s already committed?
How many times do we need to warn you to check who you are sending a message to before pressing “send”? It almost seems like some of these people do these things on purpose because they don’t know how to break up their relationships with a conversation…
This girl was actually really funny when responding to this text, but she must have been really upset to know that her boyfriend was celebrating an “anniversary” with someone else while dating her. How disrespectful and arrogant can these people be? That’s so upsetting.
This person learned a very important lesson this day: when you lie, be consistent. If you want to say you are studying, make sure you have your book with you or at least that you know where they are. If you don’t, you might get yourself into serious doo doo.
He would could have easily gotten away with a different lie if he just thought about his options for a second. But instead he just tried to seem busy to get his girlfriend to stop texting… Such a rookie mistake.
Who is this person dating? Shakespeare? Why wouldn’t they just call or send a straightforward text saying “I know you cheated” and avoid spending so much time writing rhymes for a poem? What is the point of this?
On another note, the first message probably made the cheater think they were getting away with their lies, and then the second one made them realize that they had been caught. So maybe they wrote the poem to make the other person feel stupid?!
Sometimes, it’s better to not reply at all than to lie. After all, you never know who is standing right behind you or if they already know the answer to their question and are just trying to trick you. Kudos to this person tracking down his girl looks like he really cared about her whereabouts. Obsessive much?
In general, lying makes life way more complicated than it needs to be. If you can’t tell your significant other that you are out with friends, you probably need to reconsider your relationship. It’s just not healthy to keep hiding things from the people you love all the time.
A Thousand Apologies
Another annoying thing about these disrespectful cheaters is that they honestly believe that if they apologize after breaking someone’s trust, they can get them back as nothing had happened. They will even try to make it seem like they are upset and that it is not their fault.
It’s ridiculous and embarrassing to think that some people out there fall for these apologies. The most important thing in a relationship is trust, if you can’t even have that, what is the point of getting back together?